For NIMBYs,
alcoholics and addicts are the lepers of our times
And sober
living homes are the Ebola hot spots that breed property value loss crime
A NIMBY
concerned over property values, noise or second hand smoke
To a man or
woman would want to alcoholics’ or addicts’ rights to live next door revoke
Sober living
homes are not magnets for saints
But to
condemn all is to with a far too wide brush paint
A home with
each person therein that day sober and clean
Is a home
filled with residents far more tranquil not likely to raise a scene
Following a
12 step program is a great way to approach the challenges all find at time in
one’s life
That
sometimes are overwhelming and seem everywhere, way too rife
Not with a
needle or bottle or sadly with a gun or a knife
But with the
aid of God and apologies truly meant to dampen the effects of strife
A NIMBY
might scorn an alcoholic or addict as lacking will power to not pick up
Totally
ignorant of the power of this disease when even with the 12 step shield the
urge erupts
Crushing the
walls of resistance like an incoming tide washes all sandcastles in its path
The
alcoholic or addict is washed out to sea without a preserver, boat or raft
If lucky he
or she may make it back to dry land
Shaking,
wondering if it will be different or the future urge he will withstand
Alcoholics
and addicts when not drinking or using are not citizens of the second class
Unless in
the early stages of detox one would not even know if one were to walk past
Unlike the
Jews under German rule, they do not wear a yellow arm band marked with an “A”
Only that
there is a much higher percentage of smokers might be the clue to give them
away
Or that out
of habit from attending meetings on introduction only a first name would be
displayed
But if using
or drinking it would be hard to conceal and your reflex would be to quickly
move away
In the same
way we cannot drone our way out of our struggle with radical Islam
We cannot
jail them into extinction when they are not threatening us with harm
Or call the
nuisance police each time a butt is thrown on a sidewalk or flicked onto a lawn
But do for
serious nuisances repeated again and again of those that even alcoholics would
frown on
I might not
want to live near a “sober” living house if many within were not sober or clean
Nor would I
want to be on the road with untreated drunks coming and going in a steady
stream
A car driven
by a drunk is a 3000 pound deadly weapon of steel
And an
addict still using is a highly focused individual who to support his habit will
steal
If for
liquor stores we can limit the number, concentration and proximity to residences,
churches and schools
One would think
that such similar reasonable regulations for sober living homes would prove to
be a valid tool
But banning
them outright from neighborhoods cannot be permitted
If we ever
hope to have a chance to have those suffered back to sober and clean life be
readmitted
A balancing
act of the rights of the NIMBYs and the rights of the alcoholics and addicts in
recovery
That would
be easier to obtain if elected officials and NIMBYs made the “it’s a disease”
discovery.
© November 30, 2016, Michael P. Ridley aka the Alaskanpoet
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